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Succeed by taking control of the customer experience

August 2, 2011 By Jim Raffel

Recently, I dined at PrimeHouse in Chicago for the second time. I went back because I remembered that several years ago the experience was far above average for a high-end steakhouse and we even got to visit their legendary Himalayan Salt Room. Most steakhouses get the “steak on a plate and the sides” right. So what differentiates them? It’s the customer experience and that can be defined in so many different ways.

Our Waiter Took Control of the Experience

PrimeHouse is known for their wine list and I had found a very nice half-bottle to share with Shelby as we celebrated our successful launch of the live presentation portion of our “She Said, He Said” project. As I pointed out my selection to the waiter, he said, “While that’s a nice bottle, I’d go with this other one.” Here’s the kicker: He was recommending a bottle that was about half the cost of the one I had selected. I said, “Sure, we’ll give it a try.” He promised that if we didn’t love it, he’d take it back and bring the other. We loved it.

Next, as I ordered crab cakes, a steak and a side of asparagus for us to split, he stopped me again. He explained that while the crab cakes are fantastic, they had a special appetizer this particular evening. I asked what it was and he responded simply by asking if he’d steered us wrong on the wine. I said, “Okay, bring it on.” The picture above is the bacon delight we had as an appetizer. It’s like he follows me on Twitter or something because I tweet almost every morning about cooking bacon. He also explained that I had ordered the steak and side he’d have selected.

So now it’s time for dessert. He just looks at me and asked if I trusted him. Well, duh. By this time, I’m certainly not questioning one of the best waiters I’ve ever had. He arrived at our table with little beignets and tiny squeeze bottles we could use to inject caramel and other flavors into them. Yes, delicious.

It Was Perfect and He Was Rewarded

This entire dining experience came as close to perfect as any dining experience in my life. Our waiter was rewarded with a very handsome tip. The reality is that he more then financed the generous tip with his early redirection of my wine selection. PrimeHouse is doing something right. If you’re ever in Chicago, I’d suggest that you go, observe and learn. They have me rethinking how to take control of my customer’s experience with ColorMetrix and our products and services.

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Filed Under: customer service 101 Tagged With: chicago, crab cakes, customer experience, dining, dining experience, experience, succeed, the customer, waiters

Comments

  1. Kim Scott Raffel says

    August 6, 2011 at 3:50 am

    Hi Jim,
    I could taste the food as I read your blog! Excellent post with a great lesson. Perhaps fear keeps me from taking the lead with my clients. It’s got me thinking the waiter knew his products and passionately shared his expertise with you. I too can do that with my clients. It will mean going beyond my comfort zone but that’s a self-imposed obstacle that’s been holding me back from greater success.
    Your Bro,
    Kim

    • Jim Raffel says

      August 6, 2011 at 4:51 pm

      Hey Kim,
      I like your slightly different perspective. Perhaps it’s fear that keeps most of us from knowing just how well we understand our products and services. Fear stops us from doing lots of things, it sure shouldn’t stop us from sharing the knowledge we have the greatest mastery of! 🙂

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