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You don’t know how it works here

by JimRaffel on June 14, 2011

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If you have spent anytime in corporate America, you’ve heard the words “you don’t know how it works here” probably more than a few times. I know I have and recently one of my friends shared her experience hearing this phrase one time too many times. This phrase is the epitome of thinking inside the box and it’s time we all started responding to the stupidity of it with:

You don’t know how it can change.

The older I get, the more I realize I’ve spent the vast majority of my years not conforming. I’ve never really looked at it that way. I have always thought of it as finding a better way to do what we are already doing. So, which kind of person are you? The one who is locked into “the way we do things around here” or the one looking for ways we can change the way we do things around here? Think about it and be honest with yourself.

The thing about choosing the change agent path in life is that you will never be truly satisfied. Nothing will ever be quite good enough. This doesn’t mean you can’t be happy and enjoy life. Instead, it means you find enjoyment in challenging the status quo. You are finding ways to get your thinking outside the box. About a quarter of a century ago, I was presented with the following concept of knowledge:

  1. What we know.
  2. What we know we don’t know.
  3. What we don’t even know we don’t know.

Think about the above concept for a second. Then, visualize it as three circles. The first is tiny. the second is about 10 times the size of the first. The third circle, what we don’t even know we don’t know, is bigger than the piece of paper you are trying to draw on – far bigger.

The odds favor change

Whenever you think about sitting still, just think of entire industries that said “you don’t know how it works here;” you know like, buggy whip manufactures, passenger trains, the post office, and one of my favorites, the newspaper industry. The businesses those folks were in all still exist, but they just look very different. Now, people drive cars, not buggies or ride trains (for the most part). We still send mail; but it’s just more likely to be email. And yes, we still read the news. It’s just more likely to be in a web browser than on newsprint.

So, what are you going to change today?

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Loves vs. Hates with Amplicate

by JimRaffel on July 22, 2010

I ran across a fun website called Amplicate the other day. Amplicate tracks the opinions you express on Twitter. Today they are reporting those as Loves or Hates. A few days ago when I found the site they used the words Rocks and Sucks. It’s an interesting way to get a feel for the overall positive or negative nature of your dialog on Twitter.

Humble and Happy. I have always thought my wife Cheryl’s presence on Twitter would be best described at humble and happy. Amplicate seems to support this opinion as I see the word Loves a whole lot more times than the word Hates in her Opinions list.

@hawtwife Amplicate Opinions

She tweets humble and happy thoughts. Take a peak at her stream. Positive, upbeat, inspirational, and fun would all be ways to describe her tweets. She offers to help others and is always quick to offer an encouraging word. Cheryl has 500+ followers because of her, not any of the trappings of her work.

Do they follow “you” or “who you are”. I’m not saying it’s easy to become a starter in the NFL but if you are, reaching 500 followers would be a piece of cake. As a matter of fact it might take less than a day. Would that same person reach 500 followers in even a year without the trappings of being an NFL football player?

How do you tweet? Can you think of two or three words that describe your style? Our friend @Bananza shares her tweeting style via her Twitter profile “Candid. Random.” Totally works for her. Oh, and Amplicate backs this up with almost all Loves and just a few well justified and funny Hates.

What do you think about tools like Amplicate? Do they help you better understand your Twitter style? Please take a few moments to add your comments. You can find me on Twitter as @raffel .

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