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Do Twitter nice guys finish last?

by JimRaffel on February 29, 2012

image of FnB Twitter ReservationI’ve struggled with how to write this post. The title is my way of letting you know that I am not the white hat in this story. In fact, I was an arrogant, tired, hungry and road-weary business traveler who misused my social media megaphone. I’m willing to admit that for two reasons: 1. It’s true and 2. This is a story of two wrongs somehow turning out right.

The back story

I’ve visited FnB one time about a year ago when I was in Phoenix for WordCamp 2011. A fellow attendee found out I was staying in Scottsdale and she said that I had to have a meal there if I could get in.

I visited FnB later that night and was able to obtain a coveted seat at the bar. It’s not really a bar. The area behind what looks like the bar is about half the kitchen and you get to watch the food being cooked over open-flame grills. It’s truly an amazing customer experience when combined with the quality of food and service that is delivered. I walked out in awe knowing I’d found a very special restaurant I would try to dine at on all future visits to the Phoenix area.

Twitter for good and evil

The image with this post illustrates just how powerful and useful Twitter can be. I was able to make a reservation at FnB, a restaurant I consider to be one of the five best on my list. I thought I had made a reservation. Like all of us running thriving small businesses, Pavle Milic is busy and I’m certain he gets distracted the same as I do during what must be a typical 12+ hour day running FnB. Somehow, the reservation never made it to the book.

So when we arrived at 7:45 last Thursday, there was no table for us. FnB runs full and I could see there was nothing he could do. As I mentioned earlier, I was tired, hungry, and looking forward to an amazing meal. Pavle did offer to send us a couple blocks away to his newest restaurant, which was really more of a wine bar with a small food selection.

I was disappointed, to say the least. I sent a few tweets letting the world know that FnB was somewhere I would never dine again. I also promised a blog post to further explain my displeasure. Yes, I know. The phrase “petulant child stomping feet” comes to mind for me too. We found another place for dinner and I calmed down. With a cooler head, I decided to just let this blow over and be done with it.

Twitter for more good

Then on Friday morning, Pavle reached out to me on Twitter with an apology and a request that I call him. I called and we had a nice conversation in which he apologized profusely and offered to find seats for us if I would ever consider dining with him again. So that same day, exactly 25 hours after we’d been turned away, we sat at the bar at FnB and enjoyed a meal second to none I have ever eaten with great food, great wine and a great host.

Is there a lesson?

There is. Use Twitter for good as Pavle did and not to vent and pitch a fit as I did.

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Different social media tools have different purposes. More and more folks will begin gravitating to tools where they can control who and how many people see their messages and status updates. That’s not to say they won’t remain active on Twitter or Facebook, but maybe they will look for places where they can be themselves more without worrying about who’s seeing the stream. The flip side of that is you will have a better chance of getting to know the people in less dense streams.

Twitter much density

As of this morning, I follow 3,069 people on Twitter. I’m coming to realize that this means I follow no one; at least not closely. Sure, I have a list of about 300 that I pay closer attention to, but the Twitter API is less than perfect with getting messages to lists. I’ve seen many instances where messages from those I follow show up in the main stream but never in the list stream. So while I’m trying to follow those 300 or so folks closely, I’m really not.

Finding streams with less density

Image of Google+ CirclesLast summer, I jumped on the Google+ bandwagon pretty early. I liked Google+ because I followed (circled) about 50 or 60 folks. It was easy to see what everyone was saying and leave comments on what I found interesting. Even now with over 600 people in circles, I can use the various circles I’ve created to reduce the Google+ stream density. Unlike Twitter lists, I don’t end up losing any messages by filtering down to one circle at a time.

For example, I really resonate with WordPress and the WordCamp conferences that the user community puts together. When I meet someone at a WordCamp, I add them to my WordPress/WordCamp circle. Also, if I see someone posts a great deal of content about WordPress, I will add them to the WordPress circle. Then when I’m in the mood to immerse myself in all things WordPress, I select the WordPress/WordCamp circle and it’s like being at a virtual WordCamp networking party.

Getting to know folks where there are less folks

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A few months ago, I signed up for Instagram, a photo sharing application currently available only as an iPhone app. It took a little while to figure it out but once I did, I realized I was getting to know folks I’d known for awhile even better. I have chosen to only follow about 60 people’s photo streams. As a result, I see almost every picture they post and the comments that go along with those pictures.

Think about the pictures you post: pets, food, people you know and care about or beautiful views of the places you have visited. All those images and the comments that accompany them help me get to know you on a different level than Twitter’s 140 characters. You can also comment back on Instagram and often those comment threads turn into mini-conversations. While I haven’t yet, I can assure you soon enough I’ll be asking for recipes based on some of the food images posted.

Path lets you keep it close and private

image of pathJust recently, I added Path to my list of social media tools. Path is a different breed of social media tool and at the moment I’m in love. First, Path limits your friend list to 50 (although I did see the number 150 when doing research and that could be the new number) and I like the limit more than I thought I would. I’m only adding people I know and trust. As a result, I’ll share moments on Path I might not on other social media networks. My language is a little more colorful and my comments more off the hook.

Path requires reciprocal following to see each other’s streams. That means the 50 folks I end up being friends with will also be friends with me. I like that. I’ve never had the desire to follow celebrities in social media. It’s always been more about getting to know the people I meet in cyberspace just like face-to-face in real life. Currently, I’ve added about 12 people to Path. It’s a nice manageable number. I see pretty much everything those folks post. Some of those folks aren’t active on Path, but I suspect the sexy user interface of Path will draw more folks in like it has me.

How about you, are you utilizing social media networks and tools to find less dense streams where you can get to know folks better?

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